·Did you hate anyone at the first instance. When you
hate, dislike, abuse any one, do you think for a while regarding the earlier
days. I mean birth, childhood, early days of love and affection, early days of
marriage etc. Have you ever thought that to whom you are abusing or hurting.
One may have given you birth, one may have given you parental status, one may
have given you food etc. Are you hurting a body or soul.
The soul is the
same as it was earlier when the times were good. When a body of an individual becomes
problem just think of his past and the relations from the first sight. This is
the same soul. May any problem or misunderstanding or lack of knowledge has created
the issue. Show mercy on the same individuals. Unless and until you see a soul
in a body, you can not justify your act of hatred. Are you feeding a body or a soul or a
dead, are you hurting a body or a soul or a dead etc.
·When will your presence and identity becomes burden for
self and others? When will you won't like others and when others won't like you? What
are the reasons behind that. Pause a question for you. Are you right or wrong?
try to judge why others are wrong. Don't find the mistake in others. Find it within
you. We generally don't do this because we believe that we are right and can not
be wrong. Have you ever tried to find out the fault within without any
partiality and of course neutrally? No. Because
we used to ourselves of fault finder of others. As we think we are always right
and that due to ego and overconfidence and self loving ness and self